296 - Why Contractors Shouldn't DIY Their HR with Tena Jolley
What happens when you fire someone without documentation, and they file a claim? What about the employee you've been keeping around for years because you're too scared to have the conversation?
In this episode, Martin sits down with Tena Jolley, founder of Apella Strategic Solutions and a 30-year HR veteran, to break down everything small business owners get wrong about human resources. From progressive discipline and employee evaluations to bonus structures and the real cost of keeping legacy employees on the payroll, Tena walks through the practical steps that protect your business and your bottom line.
If you've ever thought, "I can't afford HR help," this episode will change your mind. You'll discover how fractional HR consulting works, what progressive discipline actually looks like in practice, and why the cost of not having an HR professional in your corner is far greater than the cost of getting one.
Time Stamps
00:50 - Episode & Guest Intro
03:44 - Why You Shouldn't DIY HR
04:56 - At Will Misconceptions
08:49 - Cost and Fractional HR
11:26 - What HR Really Covers
15:48 - When Hair Is On Fire
19:17 - Unemployment Claims Explained
22:31 - Progressive Discipline Steps
26:55 - Handling Attitude Issues
30:19 - Reviews That Look Forward
31:03 - No More Annual Ambushes
32:27 - Who Should Evaluate
33:47 - Work Family Boundaries
36:29 - Can People Really Change
39:25 - Legacy Employees Costly Lesson
42:50 - No Surprises Review Rhythm
44:01 - 360 Feedback Done Right
47:53 - Bonuses That Drive Results
51:10 - Alignment And HR Compliance
53:16 - Start Small With HR Help
54:40 - Wrap Up And Sign Off
Snippets from the Episode
"Not having someone at your side is gonna be much more costly than having someone who walks alongside you, with solutions at a reasonable rate." — Tena
"If you wanna ruin a good employee, tolerate a bad one." — Martin
"During that performance review, there's no surprises." — Tena
"You can't be a sissy and own a business." — Martin
"Progressive discipline, it's a mindset shift. It doesn't have to be a difficult conversation. It can just be conversational and that I'm doing this to help you and I want you to win." — Tena
Key Takeaways
HR covers far more than hiring and firing; it includes handbooks, job descriptions, compensation strategy, employee training, organizational design, and compliance with federal and state laws.
Progressive discipline has four steps: verbal warning, first written reprimand, second write-up, and separation. Each step should be documented and focused on helping the employee succeed.
Employee evaluations should happen at least quarterly, not just annually, and should focus on a roadmap forward rather than a year's worth of saved-up grievances.
Subjective issues like attitude can be addressed objectively by including conduct expectations in your employee code of conduct and discussing them during the interview process.
Keeping underperforming or toxic employees because you're afraid of unemployment claims or confrontation can cost you your best people, your culture, and significant money when you sell the business.
Bonus structures should reward measurable outcomes like accuracy, response time, and process improvements rather than flat annual gifts that create entitlement.
Fractional HR professionals can work with your budget on a retainer or project basis, starting as small as a single job description, and scale with you over time.
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